Wednesday, September 3, 2008

how to diagnose ADHD child


Children who suffer from ADHD are at greater risk of depression and related disorders, depression is so likely to occur with children with ADHD, because of the constant attacks and stresses ADHD puts on their self-esteem. Whether it is a sense of frustration at seeing friends and peers alike succeed, whether it is impatience and or irritation exhibited by teachers, peers or family members, it is little wonder that ADHD children become so despondent.


When a child feels that they are not achieving then they will perceive themselves as a failure, and an ADHD child can be driven to depression, and the first stage that often arises is that the child becomes anti social, withdrawn and unwilling to engage in activities, socially etc. Sometimes, this initial retreat from the world is met with some relief by parents and teachers alike, providing some respite from the constant activity of the child. However, such a change in behaviour is not indicative of an improvement in the symptoms of the ADHD, instead, it is indicative of a new set of problems, depression. With new problems there is a need for a change in strategy and attitude as well as a need for a greater awareness of what is going on so as to better solve the problem and provide help for adhd childA child who suffers from ADHD may exhibit symptoms that may cause some concern and which are useful for diagnosing depression and to detect sign of adhd in child. This depression stems from the ADHD and the symptoms to look out for are:· Phobias· Erratic, disturbed and inconsistent sleeping patterns· Disconnection Anxiety· Disruptive behaviour whether at school or at home· Aggressiveness· Short temper, prone to hostility and or aggression at slight provocation· Odd sleeping patterns which shift from one extreme to another· Constant low mood· Tearful· Overly emotional over trivial matters· Disinterest and detachment from group activities and or settings· Absence of energy· Inability to deal with boredom· Chronic self-depreciation, and low self esteem· Self-Destructive· Aggression towards objects (such as toys, playthings, books etc)· Loss of weight, and or loss of appetite as well as unusual change in eating habits· Argumentative and prone to bouts of irritability· Stops talking· Anti social behavior· Withdraws from friends, or has no friends.· Total withdrawal from any kind of activity· Lack of engagement in conversations· Feeling dissatisfied with people, and bearing grudges more often or strongly than previouslyOdd as it may sound, many parents who were previously unaware of their childs condition (of ADHD) often find themselves rather relived that this is the cause (or at the very least a majorly contributing factor) of the depression within their ADHD child. With proper child adhd treatment , such symptoms can be managed and controlled, but it is equally important that you communicate with your child and make time for them. So long as they know they can talk to you their parents, that you will always listen, and support them then these child living with adhd will be much happier.

Taking care of disabled child...


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this blog is all about special children and how to take care of them. I hope you can learn something the articles that you will be able to read on my blog.



Parenting is demanding, joyous, exhausting and fulfilling. If you are parenting a special needs child you can double the emotions – and the exhaustion. It is no secret that special needs children need special parents, but what qualities do these parents need to have?
"Special Needs families do best when they are resilient, flexible, open-minded, resourceful and positive," says Karen Krivit, a social worker for Philadelphia Elwyn Early Intervention SEEDS Program and founder of the Philadelphia Autism Network.
It's very difficult for families to even begin to think about what qualities will be needed when a child is first diagnosed, but the following traits will help parents positively and constructively deal with the needs of their very special child.
Tolerance
A child's disability can be devastating on many levels to a family. According to Krivit, the emotions that a family goes through at first diagnosis can include tremendous amounts of guilt, anger and blame. These feelings can become crippling for a family if they are not acknowledged.
"It's important to accept that family members express feelings in a variety of ways," Krivit says. "For example, one parent may be deeply sad and talks and cries to many people, while the other parent becomes quiet and isolated. Both of these parents are expressing sadness but in different ways. Often family members feel that if others aren't behaving as they are, then they are not feeling similarly. It's important to be careful not to criticize each other's coping style, but to give each other the space and validation to have feelings."
Acceptance
Parents harbor many images of things they dream of doing with their children – playing a sport, attending their wedding or even teaching them a favorite song. Krivit says that often a child's disability forces parents not only to modify these fantasies but also to adapt them to their child's true capabilities. "This can be difficult, but it is an ongoing part of the grief process," Krivit says. "Here is where a family must learn to tolerate ambiguous feelings. On one hand, there is an acceptance of limitations; on the other hand there is a need for enthusiasm and hope. Families who are accepting of their child's disability are in a much better place to help each other and that child to thrive. These families can look at their child's strengths, and plan effectively with the child's medical and educational team for the child's future."